So I'm back, the bf issues girl.. He & I talked about it. He admitted he wasn't comfortable being overly serious right now. He explained it like "his trust in himself and relationships was shaken pretty badly". He sucked up at the time, compliments & the "one day a guy will be so lucky to have you forever" deal. He's stopped talking about his ex almost entirely now, but he's still really bad with lashing out at me, & it's always in the back of my mind, I'm falling in love with him and he isn't..
You can’t force him in a serious relationship when he clearly doesn’t want to be in one. If you force that on a guy, he won’t return any emotional commitment to you. It will basically be you doing everything and it will get extremely annoying for you.
Yes, you’re falling for him. You need 2 to have a relationship. You will waste your time in the end. It really sucks.